STUFF I’VE LEARNED THAT SEMINARY DIDN’T TEACH ME #33

Play to your strengths and staff for your weaknesses. 

What kind of football team do you think you would have where your quarterback was shifted to the offensive line, your lineman was placed at quarterback, and your punter at running back?  A losing team!  Yet, we often try to line up as pastors at positions for which we are not suited. Now, we can try to learn and grow in those skills where we are maybe a 2 on a 10 point competency scale. We might after time and much effort get to a 4 or even a 5. If your goal is mediocrity, go for it!  But, would it not be better to focus on areas where we are in the 7-8 range and seek to move those to 9 or 10?

Yet, those areas of weakness may well be essential areas of ministry.  Do not neglect them. Recruit some players for your team who have those strengths. It may be vocational staff or it could be lay persons capable of doing those tasks. We all have strengths and we all have weaknesses. A winning team plays to their strengths and is constantly searching for new players who can be added in other areas. 

Pastor, you are the quarterback, make sure the whole team knows the play, follows your direction, and advances the ball down the field together!

STUFF I’VE LEARNED THAT SEMINARY DIDN’T TEACH ME #31

Don’t do ministry alone. 

As often as possible have interns and apprentices with you, even if you cannot afford staff. A plurality of elders is not only theologically sound, it is practically helpful!  You do not have to be a “large” church, to mentor young men in ministry. Start with one.  Offer Bible college students the practical benefits of growing and resume building, even if you cannot afford to pay them anything but expenses.

It has been said that you need three types of people in your pastoral work: a Paul to mentor you and hold you accountable; a Silas to befriend you and keep you encouraged; a Timothy to mentor and hold him accountable.  Who are these people in your life?  You cannot be a Lone Ranger—and even he had Tonto!

STUFF I’VE LEARNED THAT SEMINARY DIDN’T TEACH ME #30

Look for staff members that meet these four qualifications:

1) CHARACTER—This is foundational. No matter how good they are at their job, if they are not good in their soul—then, they are not qualified to serve the Lord and share the ministry. You can stop immediately, if you cannot check this box.

2) CONVICTIONS—This is akin to the first. There are to be a set of doctrines they believe and a lifestyle integrated with those.  There may be some minor disagreement out on a few peripheral matters, but not much.  The congregation must hear a consistent message from the staff. You can disagree on the millennium and both still go to heaven, but I wouldn’t want someone on the staff who is not eschatologically equivalent, for instance.  Do you perform marriages for those who have been married before? If one pastor does and another will not, this is potential conflict.  Does one have a conviction that total abstinence from alcohol is wise and the other does not have that belief—well, you see how this can be trouble.

3) COMPETENCE—Someone may be a good person and still not have the capacity to do what is required. They are being hired for a task. Can they grow into it?  Well, they should always be growing.  But, the question is: do they have the capability for such growth, how much growth is required, and do I have time to develop them. Maybe they are a diamond in the rough. Or perhaps they are a lump of coal that would take too long to become a diamond—if ever.

4) CHEMISTRY—Too often overlooked. You can check the first three boxes and if the chemistry is poor then they are a poor fit. This doesn’t mean you want a clone of yourself. Differences can be “iron sharpening iron.”  But, if you have trouble with their basic personality, remember that is not likely to change. Will this person be a joy to work with or a burden to avoid. They may be a round peg fitting into a square hole!

If you can check off these four boxes, then you have found a recruit for building a championship team!

STUFF I’VE LEARNED THAT SEMINARY DIDN’T TEACH ME #29

Have fun with your staff. Work hard and play hard as fellow pastors. Pray together; cry and laugh together. Model loyalty and expect it. Disagreements will happen.  The Bible says that, “iron sharpens iron.”  This produces sparks!  Let that make you into a sharper sword for God to wield. That is to be a private work, however. When the staff is in public the disagreements are left behind closed doors and when the final decision is made—there is a united front presented to the congregation.